Rear Entry Sex Positions
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Rear entry (doggy style)
It's very animalistic, isn't it? And that's probably what makes it so exciting for so many couples - it resonates with very deep instinctual genetic urges to mate swiftly and fiercely.
And it tends to make a man come with great intensity, since the sight of his penis thrusting in and out of his mate's body and the feel of her bottom backed into his crotch are just too arousing for him to control himself for very long.
Obviously, therefore, this is not the best position in the world for the man who wants to carry on for longer when making love!
There are many ways a couple can enjoy this sexual position. She can kneel with her head up or down, with her hips raised high or kept low down.
This will alter the angle at which the guy's penis enters her vagina and change how much sensation and pressure they both feel.
She can move in any way she chooses to get greater vaginal stimulation and pleasure. She can move to meet her mate's thrusts or she can passively receive his thrusts.
The guy can reach around her and fondle her breasts or clitoris. He can embrace her completely or lean back and watch as he thrusts in and out of her. As a result this is a wonderful position for a man to give a woman an orgasm during sex.
He can play with her anus or grasp her tightly around her hips and pull her back onto his penis.
Or he may remain stationary while she moves back and forward along the shaft of his penis - this is a unique kind of sensation and very exciting for the couple as it once again reverses the roles of sex - the woman becoming dominant and in charge while the guy is stimulated by her posture and sexual movements.
To gain greater intimacy in this arousing sex position, a couple can place a mirror in front of themselves and watch each other's facial expressions and make eye contact as they enjoy sex.
Men often slip out of the vagina when a couple make love in this position. This is not about his penis size - it's much more about learning the movements that keep the couple together and moving in harmony. A little bit of practice may be needed, but the end results can be well worthwhile!
The rear entry position described - basic rear entry
The woman may lie down or kneel on all fours, while her mate presses his penis into her vagina.
Sometimes it can be tricky for the couple to orientate themselves correctly, so she may need to adjust the angle and height of her hips to allow him in easily. Using cushions to raise her knees or having him stand behind her while she kneels on the edge of the bed can be helpful.
Once he is inside her, he can either lean forward to embrace her or kneel behind her as he chooses - the photographs show various postures the couple can adopt.
Variations on the basic rear entry
The man standing
Most men find this very arousing and exciting. It suggest the wild animalistic nature of sex from which we are all descended: to put it bluntly, it is as if the woman is presenting herself to be fucked.
The woman lies on the bed with the man on top of her
A couple can experiment with rear entry to find the positions and postures that provide them with the greatest pleasure. A nice variation is when the woman lies down on the bed and the man enters her from behind, though some couples may find it easier to get into this one by starting from the more conventional kneeling rear entry and then lowering themselves into this one.
If the guy has his legs outside hers, it can feel very satisfying at a deep level for him - something about pinning her down while mating takes place, I imagine.
And although we tend to forget this, it is often good for a man (and for a couple) to have a simple, straightforward fuck from time to time rather than feeling they have to make tender, passionate love each and every time they get it together. This can be a good position for the simple fuck.
BTW, If you're wondering how to get into any of these sex positions, I have to say that this is one good reason to watch internet porn.
I know it's a problem, with many men becoming addicted to pornography, but if you can watch it without giving way to addiction or over-use, internet porn can show you a lot of techniques which you can incorporate into your own sex life.
Rear entry - sitting
Although it isn't, I suppose, strictly rear entry, a woman can sit on the man's lap, either facing towards each other or away from each other.
This is a nice restful position that can be tender and loving or more forceful as the couple wish. It's fun to try out from time to time but it can be a strain on the legs!
Side by side
The side by side position shown in the first photo above is wonderful for lovemaking in a gentle relaxed way.
It's often easiest to start in the missionary position and then roll over onto your sides, since getting into her vagina can be tricky if you begin from a side by side position.
Once a couple are in this position though, the guy is very likely to keep his erection but not to come quickly, which makes it a very helpful position for guys who have a tendency to premature ejaculation.
His ability to thrust is very limited, which means he can probably last for a greater time in bed - a new experience for many men!
Both the man and the woman are able to reach each other's chest, bottom and upper body, legs and face. They can kiss mouth to mouth, and he can kiss and nibble her breasts and nipples.
They can look into each other's eyes, and feel warm and loving. All in all, it's a cozy, warm sex position, if not one of the most physically stimulating.
The so-called spoons position in the second photograph is a good way to add an element of fun as you make love. It isn't the most stimulating position physically, but it can be exciting for a man to watch himself taking his partner from behind, and it can be good for her if she gets G spot stimulation.
However, it may be difficult for guys with a small penis or a hard upright erection. It's also nice to lie together after orgasm in this position as the man can embrace his partner from behind.
By moving slightly, as the couple above have done in the third photo, you can introduce any number of variations on a theme.
Health and sex
Any kind of physical disability can reduce sexual pleasure by restricting freedom of movement and your ability to get into various sexual positions. The most common problems encountered in this area are arthritis and gout, acid reflux, hiatal hernia and heart problems.
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